Something about love

♥️ Someone who deserves to be in tune with you about the ways of thinking, the ways of living, the values of life; A person who appreciates you, strives to be better because of you, gives you the motivation to try to improve every day and loves you as passionately as you love them. Only when we love the right person, we will not regret wasting, but deeply appreciate the time and love of you two. Only when we love the right person will we love, and respect the person we love with no judgment, no comparison, not forcing them to change to suit us. Only when you love the right person will you realize that love does not only make us better and more beautiful every day, but even the pain helps you become stronger.

♥️ The love between a man and a woman always involves the mother-child and father-child relationship. Between two people, there is always one person who worries and cares more for the other, because that person is more mature.

♥️ Love is like seeds, even when sown in fertile soil, is sometimes faced with the destruction of the annoying ants, worms, aphids or rains that last from morning till late to weaken the soil. Love or newborn sprout, all needs care to grow, to be healthy, to blossom and fluctificate.

♥️ Don’t turn love into pressure, but keep it true to its pure nature. Love just because of love. Do something for the one you love just because you love them.

♥️ Trying to understand a person well is a game you never reach the highest level. The screen always shows “game over” when the player reveals a bit of bewilderment. I volunteer to love someone with such great love that covers every nook and cranny we could never understand.

♥️ It is vital that you can love someone and still be yourself, do not exert too much effort to become a person that follows “mouth-of-life”.

♥️ Sex is not simply a physical relationship, but a kind of deep commitment to love. At that time, you remove all the protective cover, becoming unbelievably true to yourself. At that time, the button is not only a button but also a key, once removed, will make the partner touch your heart. Making love to someone you love and love yourself sincerely, always trusting, respecting, caring about your emotions and wanting to sublimate into love with you is also pride.

♥️ Marriage is just a way of identifying. But how the relationship evolves lies in the way of love and choice of each person.

♥️ It is said that the first three years is a difficult journey of marriage. After experiencing it, I looked back and saw that people were right. Although there was no serious contradiction, every problem that seems to be so small can be a powerful weapon that kills love at any time. Originally, men and women fell in love with no reason at all. But even a stain on the floor can become the reason why they are apart.

♥️ Talking or arguing is, in my opinion, a form of sharing for a couple to understand each other better. Every conversation or debate is like a cure for the wounds of a marriage. Because it is the cure, it must be “taken” at the right time and the right dose.

♥️ A new marriage is the first page of a work that requires a lot of dedication to complete. And what we do for the first time is like a toddler who needs patience and tolerance.

♥️ As each day goes by, you see that what took the most time out of your day is falling in love with someone, I think, you will have no regrets.

(From the book “The house with two lives” on the 2nd anniversary of the book launch)
Photo: Lam Nguyen
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And you? What is your maxim of love?